18 October 2018

Usrah Budi 2: Lesson 1 and Sharings (second meeting)

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمنِ الرَّحِيمِ
New semester has begin. (It's a already near to mid semester break)
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So, last night I attended Usrah Budi 2. The first attendance for me as I was absence previous class. I learned a lot from the sharings and lesson 1. So, I will put here the points that I jot down during the session.

Sharing 1: An-Nisa':148
Translation: "Allah doesn't love the public utterance of hurtful speech unless (it be) by one to whom injustice has been done; and Allah is Hearing, Knowing."

This ayah emphasize us to speak nicely, choose good words in speech. Once, the bad words been used, it shows that we are not really preserve our akhlaq. Bad words also might hurt people. As in a Hadith, Prophet said that "the tongue is shaper than the sword".

If we really want to speak, observe our words (i.e. using good words, avoiding cursing words (as the words are like a traditions for youth to say it). Also, spread dakwah, advices. Moreover, there will be a situation where we need to be silent; when we are angry.
There is a hadith advices us to avoid lagha things (e.g. speak pointless):
"من حسني إلسلام المرء تركه مالا يعنيه"

Refer: here

Sharing 2: Hud:73
Translation: "They said: Do you wonder at Allah's bidding? The mercy of Allah and His blessings are on you, O' people of the house, surely He is Praised, Glorious."

This ayah ask us "Should we doubt with Allah's plans?". Hence, Allah is Great, then everything that He wants will be.
Sometimes in our life, we are always questioning why was this happening, and why was that? though Allah has a better plan for us. He is the best planner in our life. We, as His slaves, we should pray (for the best, what we want). Occasionally, we already ask, pray, beg, but He won't let us to get that. Brothers sisters, again, Allah has a better plan for us. There's a hikmah in everything that happens.

The one that really attracts me last night usrah is "How to be confident in performing ibadah?"
Answer: Look back to the Asma ul-Husna, the great names. Then, we will trust in Allah's plan 100% without doubt, In shaa Allah.

Sharing 3: Al-Mujaadalah:13
Translation: "Do you fear that you will not (be able to) give in charity before your consultation? So, when you do not do it and Allah has turned to you (mercifully), then keep up prayer and pay the poor-rate and obey Allah and His Apostle; and Allah is Aware of what you do."

This ayah is basically talk about sadaqa.
Some of the Muslims are afraid in giving sadaqa because they are fear of getting poor. Besides, Allah will give us a huge reward when we give sadaqa (either we see the reward or not). Mostly, good things happened in our life are based on our charity. Sadaqa is not limited to the money, wealth but we can also contribute by giving a hand, spread kindness, knowledge, dakwah. Even, if we are throw away anything that can harm people in the road is also consider as sadaqa (based on a Hadith).

Lesson 1: Taqwa
(Al- Hujurat: 13-18)
The words Taqwa is derived from the word (wa qa ya) pronounce as waqaa. It does mean to preserve, to protect. As a complete definition Taqwa is wall (protection) that will prevent us from doing haram actions, measures. With Taqwa, we will always follow Allah's commands and avoid what has He forbid.
There's a lot to discuss but that's all for this posting! ^_^


09 April 2018

Input dan kenangan...

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمنِ الرَّحِيمِ
Saya sebenarnya dalam pertengahan semester tahun pertama degree. Suasana berbeza berbanding asasi. 'Work load' bertambah, for sure. Tetapi saya belajar banyak benda sepanjang degree ni. Cuma nak kongsi sikit. Sikit je tak banyak.
Probably, we might had questioned everything that happened in our life.
Remember "Everything happens for a reason".
Pertama, hubungan dengan orang sekeliling yang sentiasa bersama dahulu mungkin kini agak renggang.
Kedua, tak mudah untuk puaskan hati semua orang. Sis cuba tapi masih tak mampu.
Ketiga, berurusan dengan orang lain negara ni nampak mudah tapi kalau tak kena caranya T_T (susah juga hehe)
Keempat, semakin menginjak dewasa, kita semakin tak kisah sebenarnya sama ada orang sekeliling masih ingat pada tarikh hari lahir kita atau tidak. Tiada sambutan, cuma ingatan dan doa sahaja yang diharapkan. (few days back experience)
Kelima, stress perlu dikawal. Kenapa? Saya perhatikan jika kita gagal kawal stress kita, semua akan mess up. Lepas itu, mulalah merungut, tak tahan dengan dugaan dan beban yang sedikit. 
Ok cop, ini yang terakhir. Mungkin masa sekolah dulu saya sangatlah keras kepala dengan famili. Tapi akhir-akhir ini, rasa bermacam rasa ada. Rasa risaukan famili, sedih, ambil berat dll. menebal! 
Ye, rasa itu menebal. Tambah-tambah kalau dapat berita ahli keluarga dah pergi tinggalkan dunia atau masuk wad. Sis cannot la. I am so far away and all this things happened. T_T
Tapi semua kehendak Allah, kita harus redha.
Cara cakap macam pandai-pandai je kan? Ini cuma berdasarkan pengalaman saya je. Setiap orang mengalami benda yang berbeza kan? Apa-apa pun jaga diri semua!

Sahabat